Posts Tagged ‘patience’

The hardest part of being mom by herself or single mom occurs usually in social and financial dimensions. There is no better wisdom than this when being in this situation: the ”struggle” needs to be solved by the endurance, the courage, the patience and the determination. The financial problem is the most dominant due to the fact everything is getting expensive nowadays and also everything seems to be about money. Education is about money and society; living in a safe environment is about money;  Things don’t go like we want sometimes; taking care of a child and at the same time working is a challenge; a single mom should be strong enough to organize herself instead of giving up when it comes to the difficulties.

Other than the financial problem, we may distinguish social problems; a single mom would have to face a judgment of the society leading sometimes to discrimination. The eyes on her (like she choose to be in this situation), may affect her. On top of these, she may face a difficulty linked to the injustice. She would have to play two roles when raising her child: ”be the man” when she is the woman. Other than these financial and social problems she may face an educational problem for a child: in order to educate her child, she would have to ”double” her efforts and be closed to her child, watch the company and teach the child the good and the bad; follow the child while doing the homework after school and make sure the child is in the good environment of study. A single mom would have to be protective in order to avoid other children battling her child.